Friday, August 2, 2013

Conquering the Con of Condemnation (Part 4 of 5)


5)    Embracing the Father’s love: At some point in the battle against condemnation we have to address the primary issue: fear.  Condemnation is a tactic based on fear—the fear of divine rejection and/or divine displeasure.  The lie centers on the idea that we are so bad that not even God can love us anymore.   Obviously, when you analyze this lie systematically it looses all credibility.   Why would God’s love towards as believers suddenly cease because of past mistakes?  This makes no sense in light of the consistent testimony of the Scriptures that “while we were yet sinners Christ died for us.”  Jesus died for us when we were at our worst.  He loved us when we were dead spiritually speaking.

His sacrificial death on the cross isn’t based on anything that we have done or anything that would could merit.  It is because of His great love towards us! And this love was demonstrated before we were even born! His love is lavished on humanity independent of our response to it.  Obviously, we must embrace this love through some very specific instructions found in the Word: repentance through faith.   In that moment His love becomes more than a theological fact; it becomes an experiential one that transforms our life.   The amazing thing about the love of God is that according to John: “it casts out all fear. (I John 4:18)”  One translation says that it “expels” fear.  As we embrace His love fear is chased out of our hearts—as already stated this is make-up of condemnation.  Without fear, condemnation vanishes.  If God really isn’t mad at me why should I be mad at myself? If He isn’t condemning me why should I condemn myself? 

The story of the Prodigal Son if so beautiful in this process of helping our wounded hearts understand the love of God.  The Prodigal wakes up smelling like a pig.  He lived a swine’s life having run from the safety and love of his father’s household.  In that moment, he knew he had to return, but under different pretenses that before.  This time around he would be a servant not a son.  He would punish himself for his wickedness.  For surely, his father could never tolerate him again.  As he returns home the father sees him coming and takes off running in his direction. While the son tries to wallow in his self condemnation, the father doesn’t even give him the time of day.  He orders the best ring, the best robe, the best sandals, and a fattened calf killed for a party.  What a picture of extravagant love in the face of condemnation.   The most powerful way to overcome condemnation is to sit in the love of God and let Him so captivate your heart with His goodness and kindness that you  simply can’t afford to wallow in self pity any longer.  His love casts out the fear and your heart will soon be at rest. 

6)    Get rid of the source of condemnation:  Up to this point we’ve talked about external issues related to condemnation.  Let’s talk about some internal ones now.   This is of extreme importance in overcoming condemnation. Basically, we all have vulnerable places in our hearts that the enemy exploits.  It’s kind of like a scab over a wound.  Pick at it long enough and it will bleed.  Once it starts bleeding, it gets messy.  Likewise, as it relates to areas of in our lives.  We are forgiven in Christ, but often the temptation to go back to it again presents itself again and again and again.  The reason is because the devil is trying to pick at our wounds.  Once they start bleeding, WHAM, here comes the condemnation thick and heavy. 

I don’t know what your wound is where the enemy tries to assault you: over-eating, smoking, deception, lust, alcohol, pornography, etc..  The list is limitless.  What I’ve learned is identify the issue and then take steps to make sure that you don’t revisit it.  Obviously, I could write an entire series on how to overcome hidden sins and maybe one day I will.  For now, the idea I want to communicate is this: if you steal the enemy’s ammunition for condemnation from him, it makes it much more difficult for him to condemn you.  I know, it’s not rocket science. 

The verse that has helped me tremendously along these lines is Romans 8:1.  “Now there is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus who walk not according to the lusts of the flesh, but according to the Spirit.”  I've heard several Christians quote this verse leaving out the last part.  "There's no condemnation for those that are in Christ Jesus."  Only problem? that's now what the verse says.  You can be a Christian and be controlled by the lusts of your flesh and I promise you condemnation will just be one of your many problems.   The key is learning to walk in the Spirit by putting to death the desires of the flesh through the cross.  Again, a potential discussion for another article.  Let's be clear: it is possible to walk with no condemnation as we learn to walk with the Spirit by staying away from the lusts of the flesh.  As we implement this approach, the enemy has nothing to accuse us with. 

Let me also mention here the difference between condemnation and conviction.  If you are a Christian involved in sin (gratifying the lusts of the flesh to use Romans 8:1 terminology), then  Holy Spirit has a very clear role in your life—to convict you because He loves you.  If this is you, the best approach is to repent and turn from your sin, the real definition of repentance.  In other words, don’t get the two mixed up. One comes from hell, the other from heaven. One is life-sucking, the other life-giving.  One pulls you closer to Jesus, the other further away.   Conviction is wonderful even though it may be painful in the moment.  Condemnation is oppressive both in this moment as well as in the next.   Conviction is like a doctor searching for a sickness.  He pushes on and says, "does it hurt here?"  You wouldn't scream at him and say, "You quack what are you doing?"  Rather, you would thank him for being thorough in his investigations to help you heal.  Conviction is just the Holy Spirit poking us where it hurts because He wants us whole 

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